A good book is a girl's bestfriend!

Well, despite, probably needing to be reading important stuff for my classes (or at least reading ahead), during the end of winter break and this first week of class I was able to finish two books: 'Women Are Crazy Men Are Stupid' by Howard Morris & Jenny Lee and 'he's just not that into you' by Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo. Both excellent books in my opinion.

These two books, I feel (of course it's my blog... ha ha), need to be standard reading material for all single people, guys included! Now, all the guys are saying 'WHAT! Are you crazy? Me ... read a book that is going to bash guys! Say how horrible we are.... etc etc etc'.

But, I don't think that they are guy bashing books, in all honesty.

In WACMAS (sorry just made up the abbreviation), the female author actually comes off as being unreasonable in my opinion... and the guy shows true learning and such.

In hjntiy (that one doesn't look as nice), yet again, it appears that the guy (who is the lead writer in the book) gets it more than the female co-writer. Yes, granted in this book, he is an observer and partipant in this book's theme, but he still appears to be more willing to look at things objectively without 'over-emotion'.

That's what I got out of the two books... is at times, as females, we get to emotionally wrapped up in nothing, what I mean is nothing that has substance.

The hope of a new and exciting relationship.... is just that hope. (A good thing to have, but not to throw your lifesavings into it!)

The signs that appear that someone might be interested... signs are subjective. (Unless they are engraved in cold hard metal bolted to a pole which is cemented into the ground!)

Women get crazy. Yes, I will definately be the fist women to step up to the podium 'Hi! My name is Tanya. And I am crazy! It all started when I ....'

And like WACMES talks about... women get crazy when their men don't understand their feelings, emotions or girlie thoughts about a situation. How can they? Seriously, let's think about this.... Guys approach stuff in a 'facts, only the facts' point of view. (for the most part... I understand that I am generalizing here) Where women relate an emotion to the fact... or future possible fact... the what would it be like fact... the is he the one fact... Well, you get the point.

So, in conclusion, I would highly recommend anyone read those two books!